Nikki Jourdan Inspiration Leaders Blog

Hello Kingdom Women Leaders,

How often do we encounter those who pretend and smile while plotting all along to rob something from us?

He or she lingers around long enough to gain an advantage - just before exposing the big big surprise! Usually the same thing "everyone" has been warning about, ha!

I know, I know, we (always) want to give the benefit of trusting and empowering others. Giving people the chance and the opportunity to face up; come and tell us themselves....the whole truth: no matter how bad it may be...

However, once again we place ourselves on the frontline to support and encourage and help empower (unconditionally)....Just to be "back - slapped" by the very same "VICTIM." .....who now makes us look and feel much like a victim, too. 

Not to worry. Take a deep breath and remember you are never alone.

• Release the hurt and damamge intended to destroy or deceive.
  
• Give it "No Power!" Take the (appropiate steps of action) if you so desire as needed.
  
• Reclaim your freedom to choose to help (any one else). It is not your fault - Do not beat your-self up over it.
  
• Grow and Learn from the encounter....
• Live! Live on pass the pain and disappointment, In Him.
  

There is a difference. What you do everyday makes a difference to God and others that He sends across your path. You are not accountable for the actions of other people; especially when you know you have done (everything) possible to reach out and help them.

God looks at how we respond when tothers mistreat us. He looks at you and me to choose love so He can step in to help.

Here is one of my quotes to address the problem:

"Acting lazy, blind and deaf to take advantage of others is the opposite of living the abundant life, in Christ. Choose Love, ha!"   Nikki Jourdan

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"Choose Love. It looks good on you." (tm)

Nikki Jourdan

www.njourdan.webs.com